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Study Finds Out Why People Have Sex
Researchers at the University of Texas at Austin have discovered that these are the four main factors why people want to have sex.
Physical reasons such as to reduce stress ("It seemed like good exercise"), feel pleasure ("It's exciting"), improve or expand experiences ("I was curious about sex"), and the physical desirability of their partner ("The person was a good dancer").
Goal-based reasons, including utilitarian or practical considerations ("I wanted to have a baby"), social status ("I wanted to be popular") and revenge ("I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease").
Emotional reasons such as love and commitment ("I wanted to feel connected") and expression ("I wanted to say 'thank you'").
Insecurity-based reasons, including self-esteem ("I wanted the attention"), a feeling of duty or pressure ("My partner kept insisting") and to guard a mate ("I wanted to keep my partner from straying").
Some of those reasons like "I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease" are quite frightening. The study found that there are "hundreds of varied and complex motivations" for wanting to engage in sexual activitiy that range from the "spiritual to the vengeful." People are complex and so their reasons for wanting sex are also complex. That really shouldn't surprise anyone but it is interesting that these researchers are trying to organize and understand it.
Posted on July 31, 2007
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Love News Highlights 7-21-07
Here are some love and relationship news highlights from around the web.
Mandy Moore blasts guys at her concert. She has dated Zach Braff, Andy Roddick and Wilmer Valderrama.
Brad Pitt's love letter to Angelina included a 18k gold love letter charm made by the Paris engraver Cassegrain.
People has more details on Reese Witherspoon and Jake Gyllenhaal's split. "It's totally and completely over."
CDC study finds that 4% of U.S. adults have never had sex.
MeetMoi, a "location based" mobile dating service raises $1.5 million.
Study: 53% of Brits admit registering on 2 or more online dating sites and 83% admit have been on one.
Columnist says people seeking a real relationship should "ignore silly dating rules."
Mate Choice Copying says women's opinions on male attractiveness influenced by their girlfriends.
Some employers have "love contracts" where employees agree to notify HR director about inter-office relationships. (via Bullshit Observer)
In Intellidating the attraction is a beautiful mind. Dates include museums, debates and spelling bee nights.
Lindsay Lohan denies rumors that she has started dating K-Fed.
People Mag: Ivanka Trump says being smart is sexy.
Hot or Not plans to drop its subscription fees.
Posted on July 21, 2007
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Study Finds Marrital Bliss is Short-Lived
An article (via Pleasant Morning Buzz) in the New York Times discusses a new study that found the happy buzz from a new marriage fizzles after just three years.
Researchers analyzed responses from two sets of married or cohabitating couples: one group was together for one to three years, the other for four to six years.
While the researchers could not pinpoint a precise turning point - the seven-year itch, as popularized in the play and film about errant husbands, was largely a theory - they found distinct differences between the groups.
"We know the earlier ones are happier," said Prof. Kelly Musick, a University of Southern California sociologist. "The initial boost that marriage seems to provide fades over time."
Research also showed that the median duration of first marriages that end in divorce remains a little more than seven years, which means that those couples will likely spend more than half their married lives less happy than they were when they cut the first slice of wedding cake.
"Some folks start getting less happy at the wedding reception," said Larry Bumpass, a professor at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, who wrote the study with Professor Musick.
Three years isn't very long and Dr. Ruth warned that a study like this could become a self-fulfilling prophecy. She told the Times, "How dangerous it is to say something like that, From now on, everyone who's getting married will say it will last three years and then I will have to look for someone else."
The PEW study also revealed some interesting trends in attidutes toward marriage, cohabitation, premarital sex and unwed childbearing. As you might expect today's youth are more open to premarital sex and unwed childbearing than past generations. You can read some analysis and findings from the study here.
Posted on July 4, 2007
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Survey Finds Over Half of British Have Engaged in Car Sex
A survey of 1,000 British drivers has found that over 58% have had sex in their car.
In a survey of 1,000 British adults by car hire firm Holiday Autos 58 per cent of Brits admitted getting it on in their motors, with the flipped passenger seat position the most popular.
Cars are also a frequent location for finding new dates or breaking up with a current partner. The study found that 18% have exchanged phone numbers with another drive while waiting at a traffic light. That seems high but it is what the survey reported. 16% of those surveyed said an argument in the car had resulted in a break-up. People also admitted to other car activities according to the survey like mooning people, driving nude and dressing up like a bloodied demon?
Posted on July 3, 2007
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