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Share Your Sexual Testing History With STFree

stfree The New York Daily News reports that 15,000 people are now using STFree which enables people to prove they have been tested for STDs. STFree acts as a 3rd party entity by verifying and storing individuals STD testing information with their consent. The service, which charges one-time $19.99 fee, provides members with an ID called the Safe Sex License (SSL).
Manhattan-based company STFree Certifications provides its health-conscious customers a sexual history "license" with a phone number on the back that enables them to prove their testing backgrounds to potential partners.

More than 15,000 people nationwide have signed up for the STFree service, launched in 2004 by Bedford-Stuyvesant, Brooklyn, native Eli Dancy.

Dancy, a former club promoter, said he saw "a lot of irresponsibility" in his neighborhood and created the STFree card to help raise awareness.

"In places like where I grew up and where I worked, there are incredibly high HIV and STD rates," said Dancy, 28. "This card opens up the conversation for people to talk about it."
STFree cards contain a phone number and a PIN number that can be used to unlock the testing history of a potential sex partners. STFree has a FAQ on its website here.

Posted on August 7, 2008
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Italian Scientists Claim They Found G Spot Using Ultrasound

The BBC reports that Italian scientists believe they can locate a woman's G spot using ultrasound. Dr Emmanuele Jannini, the leader of the research group, said, "For the first time, it is possible to determine by a simple, rapid and inexpensive method if a woman has got a G spot or not."
The latest research, published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, was carried out the Dr Emmanuele Jannini at the University of L'Aquila, and involved just 20 women.

Ultrasound was used to measure the size and shape of the tissue beyond the "front" wall of the vagina, often suggested as the location of the G spot.

In the nine women who reported being able to achieve vaginal orgasm, the tissues between the vagina and the urethra - which carries urine out of the body - were on average thicker than in the 11 women who could not reach orgasm this way.
Other scientists disagree with Jannini's finding. They suggest that what he found isn't the G spot.
However, Dr Tim Spector, from St Thomas' Hospital in London, told New Scientist that the thicker tissue might actually be part of the clitoris - another extremely sensitive area.

Another suggestion was that, rather than being the cause of more orgasms, having these frequently might actually lead to better-developed musculature in this area.
Yet another scientist disagreed with the idea of trying to search for the so-called G spot in the first place. Dr Petra Boynton, a sexual psychologist at University College London, told the BBC, "If a woman spends all her time worrying about whether she is normal, or has a G spot or not, she will focus on just one area, and ignore everything else. It's telling people that there is a single, best way to have sex, which isn't the right thing to do."

Posted on March 7, 2008
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Less Sex. More Internet

Reuters reports that a new study has found that some people are giving up a social life and some of their sex life to spend time on the Internet. 20% of those surveyed said they "spend less time having sex because they are online."
More than a quarter of respondents -- or 28 percent -- admitted spending less time socializing face-to-face with peers because of the amount of time they spend online.

It also found that 20 percent said they spend less time having sex because they are online.

Cell phones won out over television in a question asking which device people couldn't go without but the Internet trumped all, regarded as the most necessary.

"It is taking away from offline activities, among them having sex, socializing face-to-face, watching TV and reading newspapers and magazines. It cuts into that share," said Mack.

"I don't suppose their partners are too pleased about it."

Mack said a clear trend to emerge from the survey was the increasing need for mobility with people no longer satisfied with just broadband access from home and wanting hand-held devices like iPhones and BlackBerrys.
There are women and men out there who are upset with a spouse for spending too much time on the Internet. There are also bound to be situations where lifestyles are changing and people are chosing this new information lifestyle over the older one.

Posted on September 28, 2007
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Study Finds Out Why People Have Sex

Researchers at the University of Texas at Austin have discovered that these are the four main factors why people want to have sex.
  • Physical reasons such as to reduce stress ("It seemed like good exercise"), feel pleasure ("It's exciting"), improve or expand experiences ("I was curious about sex"), and the physical desirability of their partner ("The person was a good dancer").
  • Goal-based reasons, including utilitarian or practical considerations ("I wanted to have a baby"), social status ("I wanted to be popular") and revenge ("I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease").
  • Emotional reasons such as love and commitment ("I wanted to feel connected") and expression ("I wanted to say 'thank you'").
  • Insecurity-based reasons, including self-esteem ("I wanted the attention"), a feeling of duty or pressure ("My partner kept insisting") and to guard a mate ("I wanted to keep my partner from straying").
  • Some of those reasons like "I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease" are quite frightening. The study found that there are "hundreds of varied and complex motivations" for wanting to engage in sexual activitiy that range from the "spiritual to the vengeful." People are complex and so their reasons for wanting sex are also complex. That really shouldn't surprise anyone but it is interesting that these researchers are trying to organize and understand it.

    Posted on July 31, 2007
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    Survey Finds Over Half of British Have Engaged in Car Sex

    A survey of 1,000 British drivers has found that over 58% have had sex in their car.
    In a survey of 1,000 British adults by car hire firm Holiday Autos 58 per cent of Brits admitted getting it on in their motors, with the flipped passenger seat position the most popular.
    Cars are also a frequent location for finding new dates or breaking up with a current partner. The study found that 18% have exchanged phone numbers with another drive while waiting at a traffic light. That seems high but it is what the survey reported. 16% of those surveyed said an argument in the car had resulted in a break-up. People also admitted to other car activities according to the survey like mooning people, driving nude and dressing up like a bloodied demon?

    Posted on July 3, 2007
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    Study: 4% of U.S. Adults Have Never Had Sex

    The AFP is reporting that a new CDC study has found that 4% of U.S. adults have never had sex. The study also found that 16% of adults had sex before the age of 15.
    Four percent of US adults have never had sex in their lives, and the figure climbs to 12 percent in the case of Mexican-Americans, according to an official survey out on Friday.

    "Approximately 96 percent of adults age 20-59 years have had sex, with the age group 20-29 having the lowest percent (91 percent)," the Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) said in a report.

    Eighty-eight percent of Mexican-American adults have had sex, a lower percentage than any other ethnic group.

    The report also said 16 percent of adults first had sex before the age of 15, while 15 percent abstained from sex until age 21 or older.
    Another article the CDC's recent study of sexual activity found unsurprisingly that men have more sexual partners than women. 29% of U.S. men said they have had more than 15 sex partners.

    Posted on June 23, 2007
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    Author Argues Hookups Can Harm Young Women

    UnhookedAuthor Laura Sessions Stepp argues that casual sex "hookups" can be damaging to young women. Stepp, who is also a writer for the Washington Post, has a new book out about hooking up called Unhooked. According to an MSNBC article Stepp's critics have labeled her a throwback and an anti-feminist.
    For that, Laura Sessions Stepp, author of "Unhooked," and a writer for The Washington Post, has been criticized as a throwback to an earlier, restrictive moral climate, an anti-feminist and a tut-tutting mother telling girls not to give the milk away when nobody's bought the cow.

    The author "imagines the female body as a thing that can be tarnished by too much use," wrote reviewer Kathy Dobie in Stepp's own paper, the Post, and suggested that Stepp was, in one part, trying to "instill sexual shame." For Meghan O'Rourke, literary editor at Slate.com, Stepp is "buying into alarmism about women," and making sex "a bigger, scarier, and more dangerous thing than it already is."

    Stepp argues these critics have misconstrued her ideas.

    True, she regrets that "dating has gone completely by the boards." replaced by group outings that lead to casual encounters. True, she regrets that oral sex "isn't even considered sex anymore." But she isn't saying girls should not have sex; just that they should have it in the context of a meaningful connection: "I am saying that girls should have choices."

    Too often, Stepp argues, girls and young women say proudly that they like the control "hookups" give them - control over their emotions, their schedules, and freedom to focus on things like schoolwork and career (the students she profiles in her book are high achievers).
    It's a complex issue because we want young women to have meaningful relationships but at the same time we don't want women to feel pressured into early marriages or to avoid the possibility of a long and successful career. You can read a few other articles discussing Stepp's book here, here and here.

    Posted on April 21, 2007
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